Pet memorial gifts UK: 10 thoughtful gifts for someone who has lost a pet

Losing a pet is losing a member of the family. These ten gifts, most from small UK makers, offer a quiet way to remember them or to tell a friend you're thinking of them, along with free support if the grief feels heavy.

Quick picks
- Best for the gardenPersonalised Pet Memory Slate, engraved Cumbrian slateNot On The High Street
- Best from a photoPet Portrait Gift, custom illustration from your photoNot On The High Street
- Best memory boxPersonalised White Wooden Pet Memorial Memory Box, three sizesNot On The High Street
More quick picks (7)
- Best for the first ChristmasPersonalised Glass Pet Memorial Christmas Feather BaubleNot On The High Street
- Best sympathy gift to sendPet Loss Gift Box With Handmade Sympathy Card and remembrance seedsNot On The High Street
- Best small giftCello Paw Print Porcelain Tealight Holder Dome, pet memorialCheck price
- Best for outsideAstarin pet memorial wind chime, 30in, paw printCheck price
- Best for children (UK author)Over the Rainbow Bridge by Noel Fitzpatrick (picture book)Check price
- Best-loved children's bookThe Invisible Leash by Patrice Karst (picture book)Check price
- Best for grieving adultsLosing My Best Friend: thoughtful support for those affected by dog bereavement or pet lossCheck price
How we chose: We looked for pet memorial and sympathy gifts that feel personal rather than novelty, favouring small UK makers on Not On The High Street with clear personalisation details and good reviews, plus a few well-reviewed items and books on Amazon UK. On 29 October 2026 we opened every listing to check it was available to order and read the maker's description. We haven't bought or handled these items, so check sizes and personalisation limits on each listing. These products have not been tested hands-on; this is a research-based roundup. How the research works.
When a dog, cat or other companion dies, the house goes very quiet. Friends often don't know what to say, and people who are grieving often feel they're expected to be over it quickly. A small, thoughtful gift can say what words can't: I know they mattered.
If you or someone you know is struggling, the Blue Cross Pet Loss Support service is free and confidential, on 0800 096 6606 every day from 8.30am to 8.30pm, or by email and webchat. Outside those hours, Samaritans are available any time on 116 123.
Below are ten gifts in three groups: keepsakes for your own home, gentle sympathy gifts for a friend, and books, including two for children. Most are made to order by small UK businesses, so allow time for personalisation, and check names and dates carefully before you order.
Who this guide is for: Anyone who has lost a pet, or wants to send something to a friend, relative or colleague who has. Some families also order a keepsake while an elderly or ill pet is still with them. If you're buying for someone else, a simple card and a few kind words matter more than the gift itself.
Black Friday tip: Personalised keepsakes are made to order and are rarely in the sales, so there's no reason to wait. Allow a week or two for engraving or a portrait. More gift ideas are in our Christmas gift guide hub. See the picks to watch in every category in our Black Friday deals hub.
Comparison table
| Pick | Type | Personalised? | From | Where to buy |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Personalised Pet Memory SlateBest for the garden | Engraved slate | Yes, up to 12 characters per line, with a paw print or heart | Marbletree (Not On The High Street) | Not On The High Street |
| Pet Portrait From Your PhotoBest from a photo | Custom portrait | Yes, drawn from your photo; names or text optional | AikaPortraits (Not On The High Street) | Not On The High Street |
| Personalised Pet Memory BoxBest memory box | Wooden memory box | Yes: top and bottom wording, name and dates | The Lovely Gift Group (Not On The High Street) | Not On The High Street |
| Pet Memorial Feather BaubleBest for the first Christmas | Glass Christmas bauble | Yes, pet's name with a pawprints poem | Love Lumi (Not On The High Street) | Not On The High Street |
| Pet Remembrance Seeds Gift BoxBest sympathy gift to send | Seeds gift box and card | Optional typed message inside the card | Muddy Boots Gifts (Not On The High Street) | Not On The High Street |
| Cello paw print tealight domeBest small gift | Porcelain lithophane tealight holder | No | Amazon (sold by Blaydon UK) | Check price |
| Astarin pet memorial wind chimeBest for outside | Aluminium wind chime | No | Amazon (sold by Arkham Direct) | Check price |
| Over the Rainbow BridgeBest for children (UK author) | Children's picture book | No | Amazon | Check price |
| The Invisible LeashBest-loved children's book | Children's picture book | No | Amazon | Check price |
| Losing My Best FriendBest for grieving adults | Book (adult) | No | Amazon | Check price |
Specs are from manufacturer listings as of 29 October 2026; claimed figures (running costs, runtimes) are the maker’s, not ours. Check the retailer’s page for the current price and exact variant before you buy.
Keepsakes to remember them by
Something to keep at home or in the garden, with their name on.
Personalised Pet Memory Slate, engraved Cumbrian slate
Best for: A lasting marker in the garden, on a favourite walk or on a windowsill
- Type
- Engraved slate
- Personalised?
- Yes, up to 12 characters per line, with a paw print or heart
- From
- Marbletree (Not On The High Street)
Marbletree engraves a piece of Cumbrian slate, quarried in the Lake District, with your pet's name and a short message. You choose how many characters you need, up to 12 per line, and can ask for a paw print or heart on any line. It measures about 10 by 11cm, and because slate is natural it can stay indoors or go outside in the garden. The makers explain that they first made these for their own family's dogs, leaving one on a favourite fell walk.
On 29 October 2026 it was available to order, with 37 reviews on Not On The High Street. A black gift box and message are optional extras. Engraving appears exactly as you type it, so check capitals and spelling.
What owners and reviewers like
- Natural slate for indoors or outdoors
- Paw print or heart option
- Well-reviewed maker
Watch-outs
- Short lines (12 characters)
- Each slate varies slightly in shape
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Pet Portrait Gift, custom illustration from your photo
Best for: Turning a favourite photo into something to frame
- Type
- Custom portrait
- Personalised?
- Yes, drawn from your photo; names or text optional
- From
- AikaPortraits (Not On The High Street)
AikaPortraits creates a portrait in a soft, painterly style from a photo you upload after ordering. You choose the number of pets or people, the size and the format: a print, a canvas or a framed piece, or a digital file. The maker says each portrait is made with a combination of digital tools and real artists, with attention to fur detail and expression.
It was available to order on 29 October 2026, with 108 reviews. Choose your clearest, best-lit photo, ideally at your pet's eye level, and send it as soon as you've ordered.
What owners and reviewers like
- Uses your own photo
- Print, canvas or framed
- Over 100 reviews
Watch-outs
- Partly digital rather than hand-painted
- Quality depends on your photo
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Personalised White Wooden Pet Memorial Memory Box, three sizes
Best for: Keeping a collar, a favourite toy, the tag and photos together
- Type
- Wooden memory box
- Personalised?
- Yes: top and bottom wording, name and dates
- From
- The Lovely Gift Group (Not On The High Street)
A memory box gives the collar, lead, name tag, a favourite toy and photos a safe place, rather than a drawer you can't bear to open. This hand-painted white pine box is personalised with your choice of wording above and below (up to 25 characters each, such as 'In loving memory of'), your pet's name in a paw print and their years. It comes in 22cm, 27cm and 30cm sizes.
It was available to order on 29 October 2026. There were no reviews on this listing yet, so read the maker's other reviews and check the size against what you want to keep in it.
What owners and reviewers like
- Three sizes
- Name, years and wording
- Keeps belongings together
Watch-outs
- No reviews on this listing yet
- Painted pine marks if knocked
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Personalised Glass Pet Memorial Christmas Feather Bauble
Best for: A place on the tree for a pet who isn't there this year
- Type
- Glass Christmas bauble
- Personalised?
- Yes, pet's name with a pawprints poem
- From
- Love Lumi (Not On The High Street)
The first Christmas without a pet can be especially hard. This flat 8cm glass bauble is printed with your pet's name and a short pawprints poem, with a soft white feather inside and a satin ribbon in your choice of colour. A gift box is an optional upgrade for giving it, and for keeping it safe between Christmases.
It was available to order on 29 October 2026, with 19 reviews. Check the maker's last order date for Christmas delivery on the listing.
What owners and reviewers like
- Gentle way to include them at Christmas
- Choice of ribbon colour
- Well reviewed
Watch-outs
- Glass: fragile
- Seasonal, not year-round
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Sympathy gifts for a friend
Gentle, simple gifts that say 'thinking of you' without asking anything of the person grieving.
Pet Loss Gift Box With Handmade Sympathy Card and remembrance seeds
Best for: Sending straight to a friend, with your message inside
- Type
- Seeds gift box and card
- Personalised?
- Optional typed message inside the card
- From
- Muddy Boots Gifts (Not On The High Street)
A box of remembrance seeds gives someone something gentle to do: forget-me-not, poppy and love-in-a-mist seeds, peat-free coir growing pellets, wooden seed markers and planting instructions, with a handmade 'Thinking of you' card decorated with a wooden paw print. It can be sent straight to your friend with a typed message, or to you to give in person.
It was available to order on 29 October 2026. There were no reviews on this listing yet. Seeds started on a windowsill in winter will be ready to plant out in spring, which some people find a comforting thing to look forward to.
What owners and reviewers like
- Can be sent direct with your message
- Peat-free growing pellets
- Handmade card
Watch-outs
- No reviews on this listing yet
- Needs a little care to grow
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Cello Paw Print Porcelain Tealight Holder Dome, pet memorial
Best for: A quiet light to put by their photo
- Type
- Porcelain lithophane tealight holder
- Personalised?
- No
- From
- Amazon (sold by Blaydon UK)
A small porcelain dome that shows a paw print design and the words 'Our best friends often leave paw prints on our heart' when lit from inside with a tealight or a battery LED. It's about 12cm across and comes boxed with a saucer.
It had 162 ratings when we checked on 29 October 2026, and was sold by Blaydon UK and dispatched by Amazon. A battery tealight is the safer choice if it'll be left lit.
What owners and reviewers like
- Soft, gentle glow
- Comes boxed
- Well reviewed
Watch-outs
- Not personalised
- Candles shouldn't be left unattended
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Astarin pet memorial wind chime, 30in, paw print
Best for: A garden, porch or balcony they loved
- Type
- Aluminium wind chime
- Personalised?
- No
- From
- Amazon (sold by Arkham Direct)
Some people find a gentle sound in the garden comforting. This 30-inch chime has six black anodised aluminium tubes and a paw print remembrance plate that catches the wind. The listing says the tubes are tuned and coated to resist water and wind.
It was the most-reviewed memorial chime we found, with more than 1,500 ratings when we checked on 29 October 2026, sold by Arkham Direct and dispatched by Amazon.
What owners and reviewers like
- Very widely reviewed
- For indoors or outside
- Comes gift-packaged
Watch-outs
- Not personalised
- Can be loud in strong wind
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Books that can help
Books for grieving adults, and for helping children understand what has happened.
Over the Rainbow Bridge by Noel Fitzpatrick (picture book)
Best for: Children aged about 4 to 10 who have lost a family pet
- Type
- Children's picture book
- Personalised?
- No
- From
- Amazon
Written by Noel Fitzpatrick, the vet known from TV's The Supervet, this picture book follows Sam and Dog, who do everything together, until the time comes for Dog to go over the Rainbow Bridge. By remembering their happy times, Sam starts to face the loss. It's 32 pages.
It was sold by Amazon when we checked on 29 October 2026, with more than 200 ratings. Reading it together, and talking about your own pet afterwards, can help children put their feelings into words.
What owners and reviewers like
- Gentle story for young children
- By a well-known UK vet
- Short enough for bedtime
Watch-outs
- Uses the 'Rainbow Bridge' idea, which may not suit every family
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The Invisible Leash by Patrice Karst (picture book)
Best for: Children aged about 4 to 8, after a dog or cat dies
- Type
- Children's picture book
- Personalised?
- No
- From
- Amazon
From the author of The Invisible String, this picture book tells the story of Zach, whose dog Jojo has died, and his friend Emily, who explains that an invisible leash still connects him to Jojo through love. It's a gentle way to talk about the bond that remains after a pet has died. It's 32 pages, for ages 4 to 8.
It was sold by Amazon when we checked on 29 October 2026, with more than 2,300 ratings.
What owners and reviewers like
- Very widely loved
- Simple, comforting idea
- Short enough for bedtime
Watch-outs
- US publisher, so some American wording
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Losing My Best Friend: thoughtful support for those affected by dog bereavement or pet loss
Best for: Adults who have lost a dog, or know they soon will
- Type
- Book (adult)
- Personalised?
- No
- From
- Amazon
A 152-page book of support for people who have lost a dog or are facing that loss, including those caring for a dog through illness. It's a practical, gentle read for anyone who feels nobody else quite understands.
It was sold by Amazon when we checked on 29 October 2026, with more than 1,400 ratings. It's written for dog owners, though much of it will ring true after any pet loss.
What owners and reviewers like
- Written for grieving adults
- Also covers anticipatory grief
- Widely reviewed
Watch-outs
- Dog-focused
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- Keep it simple. A card that uses the pet's name and shares a memory is often what people treasure most. Any gift is a bonus.
- Personalise carefully. Check the spelling of the pet's name and their dates with someone close to the owner, rather than guessing.
- Think about timing. Some people welcome a keepsake straight away; others prefer a few weeks. A sympathy card now and a keepsake later works well.
- Avoid anything that asks for effort in the first raw days. Seeds and books can wait on a shelf until the person is ready.
- For children, a book read together and a simple keepsake, such as a photo in a frame, help them feel included in remembering.
Personalised items on Not On The High Street are made to order by each maker, so allow at least a week or two, longer for portraits. Makers engrave or print exactly what you type. Personalised items usually can't be returned for a change of mind, but your rights still apply if something arrives faulty or not as described.
If you'd like more personalised ideas for other occasions, see our personalised Christmas gifts guide. For a friend who has since welcomed a new dog, our gifts for dog lovers guide has practical ideas.
Grief for a pet is real grief, and it can be just as hard as losing a person. Blue Cross has run its free, confidential Pet Loss Support service for 30 years. You can call 0800 096 6606 every day from 8.30am to 8.30pm, email plsmail@bluecross.org.uk, or use its webchat. It also supports people separated from a pet, or whose pet has been stolen. Outside those hours, Samaritans can be reached on 116 123 at any time.
Your vet's practice may also be able to tell you about local support, and about options such as a paw print or a lock of fur taken before or after a pet is put to sleep.
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FAQs
What is a good gift for someone who has lost a pet?
Something personal and gentle: an engraved memory slate, a portrait from a favourite photo, a memory box for the collar and toys, or remembrance seeds with a card. A card that uses the pet's name and shares a memory is often valued most.
What do you write in a pet sympathy card?
Use the pet's name, say you're sorry, and share a happy memory if you have one. For example: 'So sorry about Bella. I'll always remember her greeting everyone at the door. Thinking of you.'
Is there free support for pet bereavement in the UK?
Yes. Blue Cross Pet Loss Support is free and confidential on 0800 096 6606, every day from 8.30am to 8.30pm, with email and webchat too. Samaritans are available any time on 116 123.
How long do personalised pet memorial gifts take?
It varies by maker, so check the dispatch time on each listing. Allow at least a week or two, and longer for portraits drawn from a photo.
What book helps a child after a pet dies?
Over the Rainbow Bridge by vet Noel Fitzpatrick (ages about 4 to 10) and The Invisible Leash by Patrice Karst (ages 4 to 8) are both gentle, well-reviewed picture books.
Have you bought these?
No. This guide is based on the makers' listings and customer reviews, checked on 29 October 2026. See how we research.
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